2.2 The A4/A5/A6 P
Start with a sheet of A4 paper.
Head it "Negotiations with (other
party) about (subject)." Under that write "Mind Clearing".
Then allow yourself two minutes.
During this two minutes write down
anything and everything you can think of about the
negotiation. Keep writing regardless of what comes out. Use
only words or short phrases. Do not evaluate anything you
write down at this stage and do not stop yourself from
putting anything down. No-one will see this sheet but you!
You will find your mind racing over facts,
strategies, time scales, personalities, concessions,
alternatives, concerns and so on. Try to capture every idea.
Don't worry if the same idea recurs in different forms and
don't worry if you go off down a line of thought that causes
several words to be developments on earlier ones. Don't
worry about the importance of ideas. If you think about a
maximum offer of? 10 million one second and how you are
going to get from the station to the office the next, jot
them both down. But keep writing until your two minutes are
up. And don't go beyond minutes or your concentration will
lapse.
Now, put the A4 sheet away.
2.2.1 The A5 stage
Take a sheet of A5 paper.
Head it "Negotiation with (other
party) about (subject)" and write "Plan" underneath the
heading.
Now sit back and relax!
Ask yourself "why am I going to negotiate?"
Reflect on this.
Are you going to hold an exploratory discussion? Or do you
want to reach agreement on a principle? Or are you agreeing
some part of a whole that has already been agreed in
principle?
Take your time to clarify your purpose.
When you are clear, write that
purpose as a short statement on your A5sheet.
Now sit back and relax again!
Try to think of 4 headings or phases that you
would like to cover during the negotiation.
Four
is a good number
because you can keep 4 headings in mind. If you are sure you
need more than 4 then use 4 main headings and use headings.
Now take a postcard-size piece of paper - A6 – and write
P (for purpose) on it. Next to P write one key word which
will remind you of your purpose.
In the example of the Cancelled Contract you
might put "FINAL" OR "SETTLEMENT".
Beneath
this, put P (for plan) and under this put 4 key words to
remind you of your plan.
For example:
P : FINAL
P: REASONS
OTHER ASPECTS?
SETTLE
As you prepare for PAPER, try this approach
using the paper you have been supplied with.
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